讀後心得

A woman in her thirties shared her struggles with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law issues, as well as life pressures, which led her to lose interest in sexual activity after marriage. She initially had a friends-with-benefits relationship with her husband, but after getting married, various problems caused her to become completely indifferent to sex, even stating that "she feels nothing when watching adult movies." After seeking help on Dcard, many netizens suggested that she consider counseling to explore her own needs instead of forcing herself to comply with her husband's desires.

Sexual life is an indispensable part of life for many partners or couples. A married woman in her 30s recently revealed that she and her husband initially started as friends with benefits but transitioned into a formal relationship leading to marriage. However, after marriage, due to issues with her mother-in-law and the troubles of everyday life, she has lost interest in sex, even stating, "I feel nothing when watching adult films." Feeling helpless, she sought help from online users, asking whether she should continue the current situation or force herself to pretend to be happy to accommodate her husband.

This post sparked widespread discussion, with many netizens suggesting that she seek professional counseling to understand her needs and thoughts, and thereby find solutions to her problems. The original poster mentioned on social media that she and her husband initially were friends with benefits and chose to marry to continue their precious connection. Although they do not live with her mother-in-law, they reside in a house under her mother-in-law's name, which has led to significant friction between the two women. This prompted her to suggest moving out to rent a place, but her husband opposed this, believing there was no need to spend extra rent, and that if she insisted, she would have to bear the full rent herself.

In addition to issues with her mother-in-law, the routines of daily life with her husband have also diminished her interest in sex. Whether facing her husband or others, she feels no interest, stating, "I also feel nothing when watching adult films." Although her husband understands her situation and manages it himself, she is still eager to seek advice, asking, "Should I just continue like this, or should I force myself to accommodate my husband?" Many netizens shared similar experiences, mentioning that they once rejected intimate actions with their partners. Even when engaging, they felt an inner resistance, but some found that over time they were able to rediscover their connection, which felt quite miraculous.

Some users also mentioned that after marriage, it gradually became challenging to identify their husband's positive qualities, and some even considered divorce, hoping to completely end the relationship. The most common advice was that she should seek counseling, first determining what she truly wants, and then finding corresponding methods to resolve her current predicament.